Playing Cupid: Does Mr RIGHT really exist?

I know some of y'll be wondering what's with Gigi lately and all this mushy love talk about men and dating well, as you all know, a lot of people have a lot of issues with their relationships and sometimes don't want to seek their friends advice in other not to be judged. 99%of us humans are quite judgmental and it's not like our situations are any better so yes this is where PLAYING CUPID comes to play. If you have relationship issues,questions on life generally and just need the honest opinion of a total stranger,you can send me an email and I'll put up the post. I guarantee your privacy. I'm not some sort of love expert but trust me life has taught me quite a few lessons and I'll be sharing my experiences as well so feel free to reach out whenever.

 

Ok my heart wasn't broken, at least not recently. And yes I'm single but what I don't know is if I still believe in Mr RIGHT anymore. I'm the regular girl who believes in love, happily ever after and all the fuss of dating, the first kiss, presents, surprises that comes with all the fuss but not FLOWERS! I'm a typical NIGERIAN girl Biko!

 

Yes still on this Mr RIGHT matter, are we ladies asking for too much? I know I want the right guy but I'm not so sure Mr RIGHT or Mr PERFECT does exist. No one is perfect, especially since we don't live in an ideal world. I'm not anywhere near perfect but I know I'm a good person and I strive daily to be a better person. I'm certain we all try in our own way to be better people irrespective of our gender. Just as we ladies are looking for Mr RIGHT, the guys are also looking for Mrs RIGHT but in most cases when they find her, they just always have a way of messing things up! I'm not saying we ladies are any better but,80% of the times the guys always messes things up. I just think men are generally selfish in relationships. I stand to be corrected oh! It's just my opinion. But really y'll men can't help but CHEAT! Yes I said it. Not that women don't cheat oh but y'll men think it's a challenge of some sort and really it's crazy!

If you're in a relationship please stick to your girl! Don't be acting a fool, running around like a headless chicken chasing other girls. If you're tired of the relationship be man enough to end it and move on just don't cheat on your girl! Y'll are making girls like me believe that Mr RIGHT really does not exist anymore! I know there are some good men out there but the crazy ass ones are all over the place making it almost impossible to see the good ones and that makes dating look like ROCKET SCIENCE ! It's not that complicated y'll stop making it seem that way jor. Turning babes in SHELOCK HOLMES!

 

And ladies, if he's cheated before he'll cheat again! Trust me I learnt that lesson first hand (that's gist for another day). Think of cheating like and Egg, once broken can't be fixed. Same applies to us ladies if we cheat on our men. But the good thing about we ladies is when we cheat, he never finds out unless you want him to (I'm not spilling on my girl folk)

 

But really, does Mr RIGHT really exist? I don't think there is such a man oh but what I know is there is a good man/woman out there somewhere for everyone, and when you meet that special someone, you'll know it. Pending when we meet that special someone, y'll have an amazing long weekend. And to my Muslim friends out there Happy Eid el Kabir.

 

 

You can send your emails to sobegloria@yahoo.com please note the subject should be PLAYING CUPID.

 

 

Xoxo

Gigi

 

 

Gloria Agu

Fashion and fun loving. Loves pictures and not afraid to take on challenges.

10 comments :

  1. Mushy Gigi, in my opinion , Yes Mr and Mrs Right still exist all you need is a discerning spirit and an open heart!


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    1. Hmmmm Doyin darling no more Mr right

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  2. Lover geh oh lol! Well Mr right nd Mrs right is overrated just find someone whose main goal is to make you happy!

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  3. I lovvveeeeeeeeeeee dis write up gigi... but Mr Right does exist, its just dat dem no many.. very few good guys out there.. so we need to shine our eyes..and love wit our brain....

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    1. My darling I don't think Mr Right exists oh. But on the shinning eye part I concur.

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  4. Biko what is love.eh?! Do I still believe in it? No! Is there a Mr.Right? Mbanu! All we have are imperfect guys, it depends on your level of tolerance and ability to swallow BS.
    Abeg who cook ram? Dat one sure pass Man

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    1. My girl crunchy, well said! No Mr right. As for the ram i'm still looking for where to go and chop oh!

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  5. Hi G,
    In my opinion it's most important to give your all in any relationship so you can enjoy it because your soul would be satisfied and it's also an opportunity to learn. In the end nothing is guaranteed to last forever.

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  6. Hi G,
    In my opinion it's most important to give your all in any relationship so you can enjoy it because your soul would be satisfied and it's also an opportunity to learn. In the end nothing is guaranteed to last forever.

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