Playing Cupid : Don't I Have A Right To Know?

 

 

First and foremost, I'll like to say a huge thank you to all my followers and readers. Y'll are the best. My very first post on Playing Cupid was me really venting on how crazy the dating scene has become I didn't how many people was going to open my link I sent out on BBM or even broadcast it not until I got an email from anonymous reader who got my broadcast through I don't know who and decided to send me an email. When I saw the email I was uber excited! At least I know I'm doing something good hehehehe.

Moving on swiftly, here is a summary of the email from a guy I'll like to call my X

 

I'm a young man in my early 40's, married with beautiful kids and a girlfriend I've been dating for a while now. I'm in love with my girlfriend, I take very good care of her, all her bills I take care of, I've taken her on exotic holidays in different countries, I even paid for her masters abroad. I don't have a problem with her dating a single guy because it's only normal that someday, she'll want to settle down and start her own family. I don't want her dating another married man and even if she is dating anyone I should at least know about it. Apart from my wife, she's the only one I'm having a sexual relationship with. Lately she's been acting funny, and I've become suspicious. Since she doesn't stay alone, I called the friend that lives with her very early in the morning asking to speak with her, she came to the phone and gave me the insult of my life just because I wanted to satisfy my conscience that she didn't sleep out that night. Was I wrong to do that? Considering all the dodgy text messages I've been seeing on her phone lately about meeting up in hotels. Don't I have a right to know what's up?

 

Ok so Mr X, this is my honest response, you said you're in love with your girlfriend, that means you'll put her first before you wife. Wrong move! You can ask your friends it's wife first! In warri we say wife na wife, babe na babe!

You sound like a generous man, I wish you were my boyfriend (just kidding) everything you're doing for your babe you're doing to make her comfortable. And you have the money to do it so it's not by force. You policing her and calling very early in the morning, she should have simply said hmmm my darling stop playing SHELOCK Holmes and laugh it off, but in all honesty she's probably seeing someone else that's why she insulted you. But seriously do you want to marry the babe? What's with the policing anyway? Abi you be stalker? My advice is seriously let the girl lose, if you put the energy you put in your relationship with this babe into your marriage,trust me you'll be a happier man. If it's the sex, like you described in your email, call your wife teach her or tell her you'll be amazed your wife is way better in bed than you smallie and stop spending money anyhow, if you save all you spend on the smallie in some sort of trust fund for you children they'll love you more or if they already have trust funds give it to charity! Too many poor people on the streets. And please see a therapist. You really need one before you lose it completely.

 

So my dear readers, please drop you honest advice for Mr X, he's definitely waiting to read all your comments. And you can send me emails on sobegloria@yahoo.com.

 

Xoxo

Gigi

 

 

Gloria Agu

Fashion and fun loving. Loves pictures and not afraid to take on challenges.

8 comments :

  1. No Gloria, I feel the babe owes him some level of honesty. Like he said, he has nothing against her dating but only if she's dating a single guy. So the hide and seek and hotel hook ups makes me feel its another married man and thats a no no. Oga I feel its time you moved on before you infect your wife cos the sexual circle here is widening

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  2. Ahan! Hand don touch am. Mr X candid advice stop policing d smallie it's obvious you give her everything but u can't satisfy the insatiable desires of a single girl. She wants the world. Channel dis detective work on ur marriage and build ur home. Spending heaven and earth on a girlfriend will not make her stick to you alone. Mr X be guided before u carry.d one wen worst pass Ebola come house.

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  3. Ahan! Hand don touch am. Mr X candid advice stop policing d smallie it's obvious you give her everything but u can't satisfy the insatiable desires of a single girl. She wants the world. Channel dis detective work on ur marriage and build ur home. Spending heaven and earth on a girlfriend will not make her stick to you alone. Mr X be guided before u carry.d one wen worst pass Ebola come house.

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  4. So very good for u Mr X. Must u get babe. N y do u think she will love u n stick with u. U go marry em? The girl try sef. What u guys are doing is demand n supply. Right now the demand is much higher than urs. Better cash being made too. So get ur life in order and face Mrs X alone

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  5. Mr X..concentrate on wifey please. Not so easy to do but u can try.. watever she gives to you dat makes u spend to much on her, am positive ur wife gives u double, but if she doesn't, den talk to her about it.. cos d only thing she may feel u have a right to know is if she's getting married or gets someone better dan u , lol.

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  6. this guy is generous oh lol...buh seriously is she his wife why all d checks abi aint they playing sef ni?

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  7. Michelle was spot on. Infidelity generally results into such. I suggest Mr x should seek separation if he can't handle his marriage any longer but if he has polygamous tendencies he should look for another smallie. Dem plenty. But he can use his time more efficiently to make more money and enjoy what he has now....

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  8. Hi Gloria, love ur blog.....To Mr X, I am a dude like u and I feel ur pain. I don't support extra marital activities but I get y most (some all) guys do it. I can sense u are an old fashioned romantic and u treat women well and also trying to mentor this chic on the side (COTS) . It's obviously u believe in her or u Wldnt be this passionate and go to such lengths to support her. Xs creates imbalance and shows man's true nature..... u have spoiled her and her true nature has been revealed. You deserve more respect from her but u r lucky to find out her feelings now. Once ur generosity is disrespected ol'boi....U SHUT IT DOWN!!! . Save xs-cive for the Mrs and not chic on the side (COTS). Balance ur books, let her go and get ur wife a makeover, take her on holiday and do her till both of u can't get out of bed anymore. Keep it regular. Good luck bruv...

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